When finding our purpose, we first explore our life experiences, from birth to present. We often find messes along the way – some we made, some were beyond our control. Each episode on the movie screen builds the role we are currently playing.
Is the message we deliver a negative one or a positive one?
If we are playing the villain, we could be replaying our negative life experiences which can hurt those around us. Our message is one of anger, jealously, emptiness, neglect or abandonment. Our ability to feel love is only topical, not deep in our hearts. It’s too painful to let anyone in that far.
If we are playing the victim, we blame everyone else for what happened to us and never take responsibility for the message we are sharing about our worth. We relive the pain each time we experience the same feeling of abuse, loss, shame, or fear. We isolate ourselves into our own world.
If we are playing the heroine, we have acknowledged our life experiences, surrendered anything not serving our role, identified our purpose and are serving others in a way that brings meaning to our messes.
What character are you playing today? Are you in the Mess? Or are you sharing a Message that will help others change their life too?